什么是幸福？

Posted Sun, 12/30/2007 - 11:25 by sungli

常常傻傻的想，缘分到底是什么样子的？幸福到底是什么形状的？有了相守一生的缘分，是否就拥有了一生相守的幸福？有人说，缘分是前世修来的，是五百次回眸的执着才换来今生的擦肩而过，是千年不变的守候才有了今生的默默相守？有人说，幸福是有形状的，你把它放在心里，它就是心的形状，你把它放在外面，它就虚无缥缈。

而我想把一个人深深的刻印在心底，享受缘分带来的幸福，细细的描绘，悠悠的回想，慢慢的品味，没有忧伤，也没有那么多的堤防，就凭借你在我心中的印象，就凭借你和我能够走在一起的缘分，去揣想将来幸福的模样，我想，缘分是一种很奇妙的东西，幸福是一种很珍贵的感觉，而这一切，如果能够永远悠长那该是多么的不容易，所以，我将好好的珍惜，那么，你也要好好的珍惜，好吗？

有些时候，我们把缘分看得太过简单，其实，我觉得缘分真的是一种很神秘，很深奥的东西，茫茫人海，茫茫天地，茫茫世界。有许多人，有许多路，有许多事。而你和我，偏偏就在这许多许多路中选择了唯一的那一条路，偏偏就在那许多许多人中认定彼此是相守终生的唯一的那一个人，这，该是多么的不容易呀！我们能不好好珍惜吗？

有些时候，我们又把幸福想的太过于复杂，而我觉得幸福其实真的很简单，寂静的清晨，早早的起床，一家人一起用简单的早餐，一碗热腾腾的豆浆，几个白白软软的馒头，一碟清脆爽口的咸菜，就能换来全家人幸福的眼神和微笑，心底涌动的该是一种怎样的温柔甜蜜啊！简单到没有任何装饰，却感觉到幸福的奢华。早晨出门，你一句简短的“路上小心”，送来的该是一种怎样的关怀与牵挂，即使微凉的天气，暖意仍留在我的心中，温馨了我一天的疲倦身心，即使工作累，琐事忙，事情多，我也没有任何的怨言。晚上回到家中，一边看着孩子写作业，一边看着你准备晚上的饭菜，一边听着你对孩子的唠叨，而孩子说着学校里的种种，时而也会因为孩子不专心而嗔怒的呵斥她几声，一天的疲倦就在这样的心情和气氛中流走，点上一盏很亮的灯，看一会儿我养的那些漂亮的小鱼，再倚着你的柔肩说一说贴己的话语，心情缓缓，舒畅轻松。

阳光灿烂的假日，一手牵着你，一手牵着孩子到附近的公园里玩儿，或是追逐穿梭于清幽的树林中，或是踩在长长的卵石路上，或是倚在公园的长椅上，或是嬉戏在青翠的草坪上，无需太多华丽言语，用心用行已能领会这份惬意和幸福。这时，淡蓝的天空，飘渺的流云，柔柔的清风，细长的林荫，身边嬉耍的孩子，以及旁边不远处那对唧唧我我的情侣，都能让自己心头涌上一缕缕甜蜜的感觉。

很多时候，心情就在这样的感觉中渐渐了然于胸，于是，再也不用苦苦追寻那缘分的神奇，再也不用去探索甜甜幸福的模样。就在这样的顺其自然中渐渐的懂得，渐渐的明朗，渐渐的体会：缘分和幸福都是一种可遇不可求的稀罕事物，它们没有形状，却能神会感知；它们没有声音，却能耳闻得到；它们没有气息，却能醉你鼻翼。正所谓平淡也温暖，琐碎也幸福，辛劳也甜蜜。好好的珍惜，认真的感受，细心的呵护，幸福时刻围绕在你和我的身边。

听过这样一首歌：“星星在天上，不知为什么发光，写在心上，用沉默传达，静静凝望着天空不说话，在心里唱歌，描绘着灵魂模样，这时不悲伤也不设防，任凭擦肩而过的印象，去揣想幸福的重量，眼里的希望并不是一定要抓在我手上，就靠匆匆一瞥的印象，去猜想幸福的形状……”

缘分，其实就是这么珍贵，幸福，其实就是这么简单。

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by sungli - 01/01/2008 - 23:13

潇洒的逐迹.............

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